Life's tough guys... and its often a bitch... we all know that... its common sense.

Its like, you resist all through a storm, never seeing the end of it, then when u're about to lose hope finally the sea calms down and the sun shines. But just as u can take a breather, here it is, a new storm is back and u're back to square one!!! It happens... and its going to keep happening all our life! one storm after another... as soon as you tell urself "well at least things can't get any worse", they seem to be the magic words to push ure situation into a deeper worse state! As they say, "from the frying pan into the fire!". Anyway... when the storms come, we automatically take it against God... because we figure that if He loves us so much He shouldn't let certain things happen to us or to our family, right? If He really love us as He says He does... why does He let us go through suffering and pain? My answer is that, often we don't know why we're going through things, and why things happen, and there and then, even if we knew the answers, we wouldn't accept them let alone understand them!! But eventually, as years go by, when we finally look back on our lives, it all makes sense!!!! it's like a spider's web: when u see the single threads they look horrible, and u wonder why the spider crossed the corner of your window in that particular direction. Then you leave the room for a while, and when you're back, the masterpeice is done... the spiderweb is complete!!

Here is another perspective of why we hurt sometimes in life... I think it's an awesome explanation: